The thing about sex is that, just like any other activity, the hardest part is just getting started and then momentum takes over. Just like you work, he works just like you have kids, he has kids so you being tired all of the time can’t be the consistent reason to deny your man intimacy. Intimacy is what they’re also after, ladies. He would rather be rejected than feel like he is having to coerce his wife into wanting to have sex with him. Understand that just going through the motions and hoping he “hurries up and finishes” is something he notices. Oh, and inviting the kids to come to sleep in the room with y’all don’t help the situation either… you aren’t slick. YES, rushing to put on the head wrap or face mask, and sneaking into bed before he even has a chance to make it in the room is a signal to him that you aren’t interested… AGAIN. Stop Making Excuses and Just Go Through the Motionsįinding every reason not to have sex, having a headache every night, or creating an atmosphere that subliminally tells your partner you aren’t interested, is hurtful too. Sexual desire and the act itself are the releases that he needs to RECHARGE. Believe it or not, having sex with you gives him feelings of confidence beyond the bedroom. He wants to be wanted too and sex keeps him emotionally connected to you. Connection- this is one of the reasons why men like sex. Just like you need him to communicate and be engaged and connected to you, he needs you to make love with him. Ladies, if sex is an afterthought for you and not at the top of your priority list, for him it probably is.
Just Because It’s not a Priority to YOU, Doesn’t Mean It Isn’t to Him 6 Things Ladies Must Understand About Why Men Like Sexġ. Ladies, to strengthen your bond of intimacy, your men need you to understand a few things about their sex drive. So, open your mind and seek to understand. This blog post isn’t about ego, this article is about understanding and reconnecting. Men, before you start beating your chest and saying “YEAH!” and ladies before you start rolling your eyes and sucking your teeth, hear me out.
Men like sex! Okay now that we’ve gotten that out of the way and now that every woman reading this feels like it will just confirm her thoughts of men being “horn dogs,” I would like to take this time to make this blog about more than just sex. Do you ever wonder why men like sex? Because they really do.
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